LOVERS
BY DESIGN
BECOME THAT COUPLE
EVERYONE SECRETLY WANTS TO BE
This is the work that turns coexistence into a thriving relationship.
LOVERS BY DESIGN is your 3-month initiation into the hidden natural chemistry of your relationship — for individuals & couples who crave wild intimacy, magnetic connection, and a deeper purpose together.In 6 steps we decode your unique dynamics and rewire your love – from co-dependence to deep connection.
Learn how in your free discovery call. No strings attached.
YOUR STATUS QUO
You are functioning well together — but you feel… flat.
You’re navigating schedules — but real connection and intimacy? Well...
You’ve tried to adapt to your family life — but where’s this fulfilled, juicy, laughing version of you?
And a voice inside you is starting to ask:
“Do I have to choose between being in this relationship, this family — and feeling truly alive?”
Here’s what I want you to know:
The spark between you is not gone.
It’s just buried under old patterns, wounds, and unspoken needs.
You don’t have to settle for a relationship that just works...
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You can have one that lights you up
– with the partner you’re already with.
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Lovers by Design shows you how to get there.
imagine this
You feel wildly desired again by the person who knows you best.
You laugh more than ever.
You feel sexy, seen, and safe — not just as lovers, but as partners, parents, and visionaries.
Your relationship turns you on — emotionally, erotically, spiritually.
You’re building a life together that’s more honest, alive, and magnetic than anything you’ve known.​
This is the relationship you know is possible for you!
This is where LOVERS BY DESIGN comes in
It's based on the Venus Sequence of your Gene Keys — a powerful map of your very own emotional, mental & relational patterns that reveals:
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why you close your heart
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why you withdraw or burst out in certain situations
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why you shut down emotionally
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why you can’t get past your own shadows
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what situations trigger you​
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what helps you open up again and stay in connection
It helps you recognize your deep childhood attachment patterns so you no longer have to repeat them in your current relationship.
And it is YOUR personal key to finally being able to say what you truly need in a relationship — free from any conditioning and societal imprinting.
So that in your relationship, you can finally be YOU — and your partner can see and love you FOR WHO YOU TRULY ARE.
THE 6 INITIATIONS OF LOVERS BY DESIGN
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RELATE FROM YOUR UNSHAKABLE CORE
Purpose & core-stability in relationship
This is your purpose in relationships.
How you show up. What you run from.
What you’re truly here to give and receive.
We uncover the deep pattern beneath your instability in partnerships and reveal whether you flee, freeze, collapse, dominate, or overgive — and why.
When integrated, this becomes your anchor in love.
Not control. Not performance. But real inner stability, even in the storms.
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DECODE YOUR DESIRE & HOW YOU ATTRACT
Intimacy, attraction & desire in relationship
This is your erotic fingerprint.
The hidden dynamics that magnetize or repel. The body memories you carry. The energy you broadcast without saying a word.
It shows your patterns of co-dependency or collapse, of push-pull, of attraction based in shadow.
And it holds your portal to wild, holy, embodied pleasure. The kind that arises when safety and polarity meet.
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HOW YOU STOP SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Your Mind’s Protection Patterns
Here we meet your mental defense system.
How your intellect keeps you safe.
How you rationalize, retreat, manipulate, or disconnect — without even realizing it.
This sphere is about your teenage self — the one who learned how to not get hurt.
But also the one who’s ready to learn how to speak truth, think clearly, and love wisely.
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YOUR UNIQUE WAY TO OVERCOME ANGER, FEAR & JEALOUSY
Your emotional blueprint
The place where old wounds still react.
Where your nervous system responds before you do.
We uncover the exact way how your pain makes demands, how you unconsciously withhold or explode, and how you try to protect the most tender parts of yourself.
But when this sphere opens? You don’t just learn how to feel — you learn how to be felt. Deeply. Safely. Fully.
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HOW YOU REPARENT YOUR INNER CHILD
...so it doesn't write the same old story over and over again
This is the home of your inner child.
The place where love was first learned — or not.
Where you internalized what it means to be wanted, held, chosen.
And where the truth lives underneath it all:
That you are already love. And always were.
This sphere teaches you how to receive — not just attention or affection, but actual love.
The kind that heals by being witnessed, not fixed.
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YOUR CORE WOUND - HOW YOU STOP PUSHING LOVE AWAY
The Core Wound You’re Here to Heal
This is the place where you flinch, pull back, shut down — even when all you want is to trust.
It’s the echo of old heartbreak. And the fear of fully being seen.
Left unspoken, it sabotages everything: your safety, intimacy, trust. But when met with presence — you break the cycle. This is the healing your relationship has been waiting for.
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You stop running from yourself.
And you let love land.
WHAT YOU GET
As a couple
6 Sessions 1:1 mit Darius
3 Monate WhatsApp Support - begleitend für euren Prozess im Alltag
Audio Recordings der Sessions
A Space for your love to grow & become new again
Solo Consultation
4 Sessions 1:1 mit Darius
2 Monate WhatsApp Support - begleitend für deinen Prozess im Alltag
Audio Recordings der Sessions
A Space for your love to grow & become new again
Phase 1: REVEAL
Aggreements for Emotional Safety
Mapping the dynamics of your partnership
Discover your hidden relationship gifts
Implement embodiment practice
Phase 2: REWIRE
deep dive into your Venus Sequence
self-leadership in connection
your codes for emotional mastery
Phase 3: RECLAIM
anchor your emotional breakthroughs
recalibrate your connection
shared values and vision
the beginning of your new chapter
Plus:
WhatsApp support for 3 months: Between sessions, I’m in your pocket. Reflections, voice notes, reality checks, real talk.
Audio recordings of every session to revisit when it matters most.
Dad¹
Husband
Projector 1/3
IFS Practicioner
Gene Keys® Guide
Theta Healing® Practicioner
I’m not your therapist. Not trying to be your "Guru". And not here to fix your intimacy.
But I've walked through the fire of love, relationships and marriage. Again and again.
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I once heard someone say "Being in relationship = shadow work!" And I couldn't agree more.
Over the past 10 years the fire in my relationship with my wife has tought me how to heal my deepest wounds.
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My wife and I sometimes joke about the many emotional and ego deaths we went through together. The many times we had to let our relationship die and rebuild our marriage so it would fit the new version of us better.
We’ve faced betrayal patterns, co-dependency, polyamory phases, shutdowns, and power struggles.
And each time, we’ve done the hardest thing:
Let go of who we were—so we could become who we’re meant to be. Together.
Where we've seen other couples grow apart, we’ve grown freer, juicier, more honest.
We laugh more than ever. Have the best s*x life ever.
We feel more like ourselves – IN relationship.
And the secret is: We got radically honest. We chose growth. Over and over.
And that’s the space LOVERS BY DESIGN offers: For partners who want to stop feeling disconnected — and start building a partnership that turns them on at every level.
ARE YOU READY TO RECLAIM YOUR JUICIEST LIFE TOGETHER?
Book Your Discovery Call​
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It's your private 60 Min. free call to explore what’s going on in your relationship — your challenges, desires, and hopes. This is where we find out if Lovers by Design is the right path for you.