THE INITIATED
MAN
Wie du der Fels in der Brandung für deine Partner:in, deine Kinder, dein Business wirst. Und vor allem: für dich selbst.
THE WORK that will uplift your relationship – forever.
Ich arbeite mit Männern, die nicht stärker, sondern wahrhaftiger werden wollen. Die spüren, dass Erfolg auf dem Papier nichts bringt, wenn ihnen innerlich etwas fehlt. In unserer Arbeit geht es nicht darum, dich neu zu bauen. Sondern dich zu erinnern, wer du wirklich bist – und daraus zu führen, zu lieben, zu leben.
Was du spürst – aber selten zugibst.
Hast du das Gefühl, du müsstest längst weiter sein?
Beruflich. In deiner Beziehung. In dir selbst.
Du funktionierst, du gibst alles.
Aber in den stillen Momenten kommt diese Leere.
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✖ Du hast keine Zeit – aber ständig das Gefühl, zu wenig da zu sein.
✖ Du liebst deine Familie – aber dein Nervensystem ist im Dauerstress.
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✖ Du willst eine starke Partnerschaft – aber es fehlt an Tiefe, Anziehung, Klarheit.
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✖ Du trägst Verantwortung – aber dir fehlt Verbindung zu deinem inneren Feuer.
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✖ Du bist erfolgreich – aber nicht erfüllt.
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Und tief in dir weißt du:
So kann es nicht weitergehen.
imagine:
You feel wildly desired by the person who knows you best.
You laugh more than ever.
You feel sexy, seen, and safe — not just as lovers, but as partners, parents, and visionaries.
Your relationship turns you on — emotionally, erotically, spiritually.
You’re building a life together that’s more honest, alive, and magnetic than anything you’ve known.​
That’s the relationship you know is possible!
And here’s why you’re not living it yet:
Yes — rituals are important.
Yes — communication tools matter.
Yes — couples therapy helps.
But let’s be honest:
You could keep improving,
learning the 100th communication method,
fixing your relationship for years…
...and you'd still feel like you’re compromising who you truly are — in a love that has become something you manage, not something that makes you feel wildly alive.
Still...​
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having these outbursts
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numbing yourself
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shutting up to keep the peace
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performing love instead of feeling it
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becoming someone you’re not, just to make it work
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holding back your full expression
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Because deep down, you know:
None of it touches the core of what you truly long for — to feel wildly alive, desired, turned on, and seen in every layer of your connection.
This is where
LOVERS BY DESIGN
comes in.
It’s based on the Venus Sequence of your Gene Keys — a powerful map of your very own emotional, mental & relational patterns that reveals:
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why you close your heart
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why you withdraw or burst out in certain situations
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why you shut down emotionally
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why you can’t get past your own shadows
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what situations trigger you​
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what helps you open up again and stay in connection
It helps you recognize your deep childhood attachment patterns so you no longer have to repeat them in your current relationship.
And it is YOUR personal key to finally being able to say what you truly need in a relationship — free from any conditioning and societal imprinting.
So that in relationship, you can finally be YOU — and your partner can see and love you as you truly are.
The heart of this work
THE VENUS SEQUENCE
There’s a reason you keep hitting the same walls in love.
Patterns repeat. Conflicts loop. Chemistry fades.
Even though you know there’s more.
The Venus Sequence is the map we never got.
Not a method. A remembrance.
It reveals the emotional wounds you carry, the protection strategies you’ve learned, and the love you’ve been craving all along — from yourself and each other.
In Lovers by Design, we walk this sequence — together.
Each step takes you deeper into your truth, your heart, and your relationship’s untapped ecstatic potential.
Let me show you the six initiations we move through:
This sequence is the spine of Lovers by Design.
Each session touches it, unlocks it, opens it.
Until you stop reacting to love from the past — and start creating love from your future.
Because your relationship isn’t broken.
It’s just waiting to become who it was always meant to be.
THE 6 INITIATIONS IN LOVERS BY DESIGN
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Purpose & core-stability in relationship
This is your core orientation in love.
How you show up. What you run from.
What you’re truly here to give and receive.
We uncover the deep pattern beneath your instability in partnerships and reveal whether you flee, freeze, collapse, dominate, or overgive — and why.
When integrated, this becomes your anchor in love.
Not control. Not performance. But real inner stability, even in the storms.
HOW YOU STABILISE YOUR RELATIONSHIP
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WHAT YOU DESIRE & HOW YOU ATTRACT
Intimacy, attraction & desire in relationship
This is your erotic fingerprint.
The hidden dynamics that magnetize or repel. The body memories you carry. The energy you broadcast without saying a word.
It shows your patterns of co-dependency or collapse, of push-pull, of attraction based in shadow.
And it holds your portal to wild, holy, embodied pleasure. The kind that arises when safety and polarity meet.
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HOW YOU STOP SABOTAGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP
Your Mind’s Protection Patterns
Here we meet your mental defense system.
How your intellect keeps you safe.
How you rationalize, retreat, manipulate, or disconnect — without even realizing it.
This sphere is about your teenage self — the one who learned how to not get hurt.
But also the one who’s ready to learn how to speak truth, think clearly, and love wisely.
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HOW YOU OVERCOME ANGER, FEAR & JEALOUSY
Your emotional blueprint
The place where old wounds still react.
Where your nervous system responds before you do.
We uncover the exact way how your pain makes demands, how you unconsciously withhold or explode, and how you try to protect the most tender parts of yourself.
But when this sphere opens? You don’t just learn how to feel — you learn how to be felt. Deeply. Safely. Fully.
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HOW YOU REPARENT YOUR INNER CHILD
...so it doesn't write the same old story over and over again
This is the home of your inner child.
The place where love was first learned — or not.
Where you internalized what it means to be wanted, held, chosen.
And where the truth lives underneath it all:
That you are already love. And always were.
This sphere teaches you how to receive — not just attention or affection, but actual love.
The kind that heals by being witnessed, not fixed.
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YOUR CORE WOUND - HOW YOU STOP PUSHING LOVE AWAY
The Core Wound You’re Here to Heal
This is the place where you flinch, pull back, shut down — even when all you want is closeness.
It’s the echo of old heartbreak. The fear that if you’re fully seen, you’ll lose love. Or lose yourself.
Left unspoken, it sabotages everything:
Sex. Safety. Intimacy. Trust.
But when you meet it with presence —
you break the cycle.
You stop making your partner the enemy.
You stop running from yourself.
And something shifts:
You stay open.
You let love land.
You become someone who can truly be met.
This is the healing your relationship has been waiting for.
The moment it becomes real again.
WHAT YOU GET:
As a couple
6 Sessions 1:1 mit Darius
3 Monate WhatsApp Support - begleitend für euren Prozess im Alltag
Audio Recordings der Sessions
A Space for your love to grow & become new again
Solo Consultation
4 Sessions 1:1 mit Darius
2 Monate WhatsApp Support - begleitend für deinen Prozess im Alltag
Audio Recordings der Sessions
A Space for your love to grow & become new again
Phase 1: REVEAL
1x Couple Session: We light the fire, set the tone, map your dynamics, and unlock the first breakthrough.
Phase 2: REWIRE
4x Private Deep Dives (2 per person): Each of you gets your own raw, honest space to go deep into your Venus Sequence, self-leadership and emotional breakthroughs.
Phase 3: RECLAIM
1x Couple Integration Session: We share and anchor what’s shifted, recalibrate your connection and shared values, and set your next chapter in motion.
Plus:
WhatsApp support for 3 months: Between sessions, I’m in your pocket. Reflections, voice notes, reality checks, real talk.
Audio recordings of every session to revisit when it matters most.
Darius Dion Freund
Projector 1/3
Men's Mentor
IFS Guide
Gene Keys® Guide
Theta Healing® Practicioner
Breathwork Facilitator
HI I AM YOUR GUIDE, DARIUS
THE ROOTS OF LOVERS BY DESIGN
I’m not your therapist. Not your Guru. Not here to fix your intimacy.
I’m a man who’s lived the full cycle of relational growth—personally.
I’ve been in the fire, over and over again.
And I’ve chosen love again and again.
I’ve been in a committed relationship for over 10 years. Married for 5. We have a 5-year-old son. And we’re still growing.
My wife and I have died many deaths in our relationship—emotional deaths, ego deaths, intimacy deaths.
We’ve faced betrayal patterns, co-dependency, polyamory phases, shutdowns, and power struggles.
And each time, we’ve done the hardest thing:
Let go of who we were—so we could become who we’re meant to be. Together.
Where other couples grow apart, we’ve grown freer, juicier, more honest.
We laugh more every year.
We have better sex than ever.
We feel more like ourselves—while loving each other more deeply.
And no, we didn’t just get lucky.
We got radically honest.
We chose growth. Over and over.
And that’s the space I hold: For couples who want to stop betraying themselves in love— and start building a partnership that turns them on at every level.
"Darius, you’ve helped me so much. It’s amazing how much recognition I get. Thank you so so much! I'm fully booked with 4x higher revenue and my group-course sold out so easily that I could schedule 2 more - and they also sold out."
Philipp H., 36
Manual Therapist
"After our mentoring I went to shooting a documentary in the USA with a crew that felt safe with my leadership. How I managed this whole project. How I communicated in my own style. That’s a big big shift! And now there’s more and more projects coming. Cool stuff, and stuff I get to do in my own style!"
André | 41
Director
"After our mentoring I went to shooting a documentary in the USA with a crew that felt safe with my leadership. How I managed this whole project. How I communicated in my own style. That’s a big big shift! And now there’s more and more projects coming. Cool stuff, and stuff I get to do in my own style!"
André | 41
Director
What my clients say:
LOVERS BY DESIGN is for you, if...
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You love each other—but the passion is gone
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You long for deeper intimacy, but don’t know how to reach it anymore
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You want a relationship that’s alive, not just functional
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You’re ready to be radically honest—with yourself and each other
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You don’t want to stay together out of habit. You want to choose each other—in freedom, in truth, in power.
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You want to create a relationship that’s juicy, magnetic, and aligned with your shared purpose.
THIS WORK IS TO MUCH for you, if...
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You're looking for a quick fix for your relationship without facing your fears, responsibilities & your own desires
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You’re not sure you want to stay together — AND you’re not committed to trying
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One or both of you isn’t willing to go all in
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You’re just looking for a way to open your relationship — without first going deeper together
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You’re not ready to take full responsibility for your patterns
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You avoid truth and vulnerability — and aren’t ready to change that
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You expect your partner to change, but don’t want to do your own inner work
READY TO DIVE DEEPER?
ARE YOU READY TO REMEMBER, RECLAIM & REIGNITE YOUR LOVE?
Everything you need to know about your 1:1-LOVERS BY DESIGN Experience:
Phase 1: REVEAL
1x Couple Session → Decode your dynamic. Uncover what’s really driving disconnection, conflict, or numbness — and what your relationship is truly here to become. (kennenlernen persönlich)
Phase 2: REWIRE
4x Private Deep Dives (2 per partner) → Break the cycles. Heal old patterns, attachment wounds, and protective parts that sabotage intimacy. Come home to your truth — individually. (readings. arbeit mit dem chart)
Phase 3: RECLAIM
1x Couple Session → Return to each other. Reignite chemistry. Integrate what’s shifted. Meet again — in freedom, in clarity, in desire.
Plus:
Exclusive WhatsApp support for 3 months → Between sessions, I’m in your pocket. Reflections, voice notes, reality checks, real talk.
optional: Audio recordings of every session to revisit your breakthroughs anytime
Investment:​
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​COUPLE standard: 5300€ // Launch Offer: €4.500€
​SOLO standard: 3500€ // Launch Offer: €2.900€
All prices are excl. VAT
Payment plans are available.
Booking via Discovery Call.
No pressure. No pitch. Just resonance.
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Next? Book Your Discovery Call​ Now
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We start with a 60 Min. free call to explore what’s going on in your relationship — your challenges, desires, and hopes.
This is where we find out if Lovers by Design is the right path for you.